Helpppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!…

Sounds like you need to gain your parents trust for starters. You have your whole life ahead of you, so one man isn't gonna stop you from being happy with someone else in the future. There are millions of people out there. Your best friend did know what she was doing. She probably just thought you were just too messed up to noticed what she and your boyfriend were doing. For a guy to be hanging out with young girls, sounds like he don't really care about you in the first place. all they see is sex. You will learn more about relationships as you get older and gain more experience. I think you should start focusing on more important things in life. Leaving for the military is a great start. Your going to go through heartaches and sadness with every relationship you have over the years. But eventually you will find the one you were meant to be with and everything else in your past will be a lessened learned. Just keep in mind if you give up on life and yourself you will miss out on so much good that is going to happen in your life.. You will know exactly what im talking about when that time comes in your life. Just be patient and go with the flow. Life is worth more then some loser guy, i say loser because what 21 year old hangs out with with 16 year old.. Must either be desperate or has a thing for young girls.. He isn't even worth your time. sounds like trouble to me